What complaints have I consistently heard in my current and past relationships that I need to work on?

Self-Discovery Questions: What complaints have I consistently heard in my current and past relationships that I need to work on?

Sometimes we aren’t aware of how we contribute to relationship problems. We are blind to our own insecurities, knee-jerk reactions, and unkindnesses.

Look back over relationships you’ve had in the past.

Do you see a consistent pattern of complaints from your past partners or love interests about your behavior? Pay attention to these patterns and see them as important areas of growth for you.